Dating advise for men
Maybe it gave men a certain belief and entitlement that they never had before; so for that, I can forgive many guys for believing this. Not paying for a woman want to take out says one thing to a woman, “This guy is cheap!” I am not saying that you should lead with your money and get flashy or that you should pay for everything; but I am saying women still feel that men should pay (or at least offer to) when he takes her out on a date.But in any case, whether you want to wait until marriage or whether you want to wait 3 days, I’m here to tell you, speaking from a practical dating advice point-of-view; these are both bad recommendations.When you put a timeframe on something like this, you take away the spontaneity and natural flow of attraction. If that means having sex on the first date, or the second date, or whenever that time comes, then that is what you should do.Kissing her at the end of the date is okay, but waiting until the end of the date to kiss her for the first time is not.If you have to wait until the very end of the date to lock lips with your woman, you’ve done something wrong.The “Just Be Nice and She’ll Like You” crap is one of the worst dating advice for men strategies I can think of! When you try acting a certain way, you act incongruently with your inner emotions and your true self.It literally drives me up the wall when I hear this because it’s so wrong! Women see right through this façade, and they never see the man favorably.
Guys who try to play into the nice-guy role are guys who just don’t have the confidence to be true to who they really are. They don’t have to “try” to be nice, they just are.
On a side note, a good woman is always going to offer to pitch in, get the next tab, pay for something else during the date, or offer to buy the subsequent round of whatever pops up.
Keep this in mind when you are deciding who is and who is not “girlfriend material.” Being “The Nice Guy” is not an effective strategy when trying to woo a woman.
Why marry someone and spend the rest of your life with them without even knowing if you like connecting with them in the most definitive way?
Again, if you’re devoutly religious I do apologize, because I don’t mean to knock your beliefs, but I too am a Catholic, and I just don’t get it!