Dating a married guy
”If a guy won’t call you his girlfriend after a month (two months tops), then I would say it means that he’s enjoying the relationship exactly where it is and at this moment will not take it any further unless he is inspired to.
I guess the simple answer as to why he won’t call you his girlfriend is because he doesn’t have to.
To start things off, I can tell you that one of the things that guys will talk about is who we think is a hot chick.
I can also tell you that men have a wide range of what they consider to be an ideal weight and their “type” of woman.
They had hundreds of men look at pictures of women’s bodies and rate them according to which they found the most attractive.
Then, hundreds of women looked at these same pictures and rated how they than what the women believed to be the ideal weight that men want.
In other words, a woman who is the same size as another woman but has a higher amount of muscle than the other woman will actually weigh more than the less muscular woman.
(Again, that’s not a slam against women who are naturally very skinny.So it’s really important to realize that whatever a particular man prefers, he probably wants you to have a little more meat on your bones than you think he ideally wants.(This study and others can be found in The Evolution of Desire by David M Buss) Now I am not saying go cancel your gym membership and eat a tub of ice cream on the couch.Weight means your entire body weight – muscle, organs, fat, water, etc. Fit means that you have a low body fat percentage (for women, having a body fat percentage in the lower 20s is good).So weight-loss shouldn’t necessarily be anyone’s goal. The problem is that a lot of women will go all-out on cardio and never do any weight lifting because they don’t want to get big muscles. You would need to have the intention to put on muscle to put on enough muscle to appear abnormally muscle-y.